Deeper conversations. A wider self.
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Welcome to Sanctuary Domain, a space for deeper conversations about identity, desire, connection, and the experiences that shape us. Explore honest perspectives, personal stories, and thoughtful discussions that move beyond conventional discourse.
Coming December 2026: The Male Experience of Nudity
What does being naked mean to men beyond the obvious? A new independent research study explores nudity, body image, friendship, attraction, and belonging.
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There’s more than one way to understand ourselves and each other. Explore essays and reflections, personal journals, original stories, and research that looks more deeply into masculinity, intimacy, identity, and connection.
Perspectives on masculinity, identity, intimacy, and the forces that shape us.
Honest, personal glimpses into experiences, questions, and moments of self-discovery.
Original fiction exploring desire, relationships, vulnerability, and the unexpected turns of human connection.
A closer look at the research, evidence, and ideas shaping our understanding of masculinity, identity, and connection.
Latest Writing
- The Pants Remain Optional
From a pants-free Zoom mishap to an awkward encounter at a gay bar, one man’s candid, funny account of the embarrassments that stick.
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